Her Choice Not to Heal After Abortion
Abortion’s emotional and spiritual pain is likely one of worst forms of self-torture that exists in our world today. It binds our hearts to the anxiety and shame that someone could discover this awful truth about us and cast us out.
Her Choice Not to Heal After Abortion
Nov 6, 2018
Abortion’s emotional and spiritual pain is likely one of worst forms of self-torture that exists in our world today. It binds our hearts to the anxiety and shame that someone could discover this awful truth about us and cast us out.
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How Will Post-Abortive Women Vote?
Oct 30, 2018
But what about the one third of American voting women who have chosen abortion? How will they vote? The answer often depends on the time that has passed since their abortion experience.
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A Pastor’s Compassion for the Post-Abortive
Oct 23, 2018
She walked into my office. I could tell she was nervous. When I heard her story I could tell why. She was post-abortive, she had a new boyfriend and was afraid to tell him her story.
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4 Male Mindsets that Affect Abortion Decisions
Oct 16, 2018
While men may not possess any legal rights in the abortion decision, they have more influence than they sometimes realize. That power typically depends on the strength of their relationship with the child’s mother.
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Respecting an Abortion Secret
Oct 9, 2018
The consequences for an abortion confessor can be difficult for the non-post-abortive to imagine. This level of rejection is not for the faint of heart.
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10 Comforts When Family Members are Aborted
Oct 2, 2018
Aborted children don’t show up on a missing person’s list. Their remains aren’t in mortuaries or funeral homes. They are often unacknowledged by their parents which means the secret of their brief lives is rarely shared with others. That doesn’t mean there isn’t related grief when this truth is discovered.
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Does God Approve of Abortion?
Sep 18, 2018
Many faith-based hearts prayed before they aborted, asking for God to intervene if this wasn’t His will for them. These ambiguous prayers are often answered, just not in the way we expect.
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Oprah’s #ShoutYourAbortion Fallout
Sep 11, 2018
This abortion proud hashtag has now been tweeted over 300,000 times. Whatever the reasons for participating in this promotion, the use of this hashtag can have massive implications for the American family whose members have been lost to abortion.
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Message of Hope to Abortion’s Wounded
Aug 14, 2018
Our team is here to help anyone struggling after an abortion decision. Please know that there is no sin that God cannot forgive, even abortion. The problem maybe you don’t forgive yourself and may need help. The HerChoicetoHeal.com website can help you discover God’s peace and mercy so that you can process this pain in a healthy manner. Visit HerChoicetoHeal.com today!
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The Return of Abortion’s Exiled Women
Aug 7, 2018
At some point, God reaches through the darkness of a woman’s self-imposed exile to call His children back into His fellowship. It is then that God rolls away the clouds from our sub-conscious and truth is presented. Memories that God resurrects cannot be pushed away easily. If they aren’t faced, God will continue to propel them into your heart.
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Jul 31, 2018
Sydna Massé shares the story of how God led her to join an abortion recovery class and the impact that healing had on her ministry life. Her Choice to Heal Finding Spiritual and Emotional Peace After Abortion Sydna Massé compassionately leads you...
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The Revenant of an Aborted Child
Jul 17, 2018
Revenant is defined as one that returns after death or a long absence. For many post-abortive people, being haunted by their “blob of tissue” is often unexpected.
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Her Choice to Heal Finding Spiritual and Emotional Peace After Abortion
Her Choice to Heal is designed to help women find a way to God’s healing after making the devastating choice of abortion. Written by a post-abortive woman, Sydna Massé, it includes testimonies of strength, healing and hope.
Sydna Massé compassionately leads you on the difficult journey through denial, anger, and grief, to forgiveness, redemption, and letting go. Her Choice to Heal offers a road map to healing – practical suggestions, resources for help, space to journal, with the encouragement and hope.
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The Return of Abortion’s Exiled Women
by Sydna Masse | August 7, 2018 | Abortion Recovery Grid, The Return of Abortion's Exiled Women | 0 Comments
At some point, God reaches through the darkness of a woman’s self-imposed exile to call His children back into His fellowship. It is then that God rolls away the clouds from our sub-conscious and truth is presented. Memories that God resurrects cannot be pushed away easily. If they aren’t faced, God will continue to propel them into your heart.
Aborting a Millennial
by Sydna Masse | January 19, 2016 | Abortion PTSD Session 1, Extended Wounded Siblings of Aborted Child, Helping Someone Who Has Experienced Abortion, Her Choice to Heal Abortion Recovery Website | 0 Comments
Signs bearing the message, “We are the pro-life generation that will abolish abortion!” will be in full view in Washington this week. Members of the millennial audience, or Generation Y, are expected to turn out in record number for this year’s protest march...4 Stages of After Abortion Sadness
by Sydna Masse | February 13, 2017 | Grieving Your Loss Session 6, Her Choice to Heal Abortion Recovery Website | 0 Comments
It is normal for human beings to avoid or deny sad feelings. Few actively embrace sorrow after abortion due to the fear that their tears could result in depression that could lead to suicide. We then miss the results of embracing sorrow, outlined in Psalm 126:5-6 (NIV) – Those who sow with tears will reap with songs of joy. Those who go out weeping, carrying seed to sow, will return with songs of joy…
Forbidden Grace: Russian Evangelism and Post-Abortive Misery
by Sydna Masse | July 11, 2016 | Abortion PTSD Session 1, Her Choice to Heal Abortion Recovery Website | 0 Comments
“This is the place where we do the great evil. Will God ever forgive us?” the Russian nurse commented as she opened a large door to her hospital’s abortion area for Ramah’s visiting ministry team.
When She Doesn’t Know You Know: 10 Ways to Offer Indirect Post-Abortive Compassion
by Sydna Masse | November 9, 2015 | Extended Wounded Fathers, Extended Wounded Grandparents, Extended Wounded Siblings of Aborted Child, Helping Someone Who Has Experienced Abortion, Her Choice to Heal Abortion Recovery Website | 0 Comments
“I know you had an abortion, Sydna!” my mother screamed at the end of a horrific telephone argument in 1985. My abortion four years earlier had been a difficult secret to maintain. My mother’s secret knowledge of my choice had obviously festered in her heart for...5 Burdens of Abortion
by Sydna Masse | May 15, 2017 | Abortion PTSD Session 1, Her Choice to Heal Abortion Recovery Website | 0 Comments
Abortion impacts a woman’s body, soul and mind. The simple fact that post-abortive women rarely share this truth with others confirms that abortion often has unseen consequences.
“Is Abortion a Sin?”
by Sydna Masse | August 29, 2016 | Finding Forgiveness Session 5, Her Choice to Heal Abortion Recovery Website | 0 Comments
I was a Christian when I entered an abortion clinic. My boyfriend and I were both pastor’s kids. Our sexual relationship was obviously sinful but I could rationalize it because everyone was doing it. That began a habit of sin justification that led to my child’s eventual demise.
A Simple Question – “Number of Pregnancies?”
by Sydna Masse | August 24, 2011 | Denial's Impact Session 3, Helping Someone Who Has Experienced Abortion, Her Choice to Heal Abortion Recovery Website | 0 Comments
I was hesitant to share my abortion secret with anyone — especially a physician. However, fear of condemnation and my own shame never over-ruled my conscience and I was normally truthful.
Abortion Influencers: What A Fool Believes
by Sydna Masse | August 17, 2015 | Addressing Anger Session 4, Her Choice to Heal Abortion Recovery Website | 0 Comments
“I thought they killed you up there!” my boyfriend announced as he met me outside the abortion clinic where my unborn child had just died. As the father of my aborted baby announced the possibility of my demise during that procedure, I wondered what other risks I...Stranger at the Abortion Clinic
by Sydna Masse | March 20, 2018 | Stranger at the Abortion Clinic | 0 Comments
Bright red splotches appeared over her neck revealing her obvious stress and discomfort in this dark environment. She walked like a terrified lamb, obviously ready to flee the spirit of death that encircled her heart.
And The Bride Wore White…
by Sydna Masse | August 26, 2013 | Helping Someone Who Has Experienced Abortion, Her Choice to Heal Abortion Recovery Website, Sharing the Secret Session 9 | 0 Comments
I want to invite you into one of the most private moments of my life. It was the moment my life was sliced in two, if you will. I say it was sliced into two because the person I was before this moment was drastically different from the person I quickly became for many years to come.
5 Steps to Begin Healing After Abortion
by Sydna Masse | November 30, 2015 | Helping Someone Who Has Experienced Abortion, Her Choice to Heal Abortion Recovery Website, Sharing Your Story Session 2 | 0 Comments
After abortion, many come to a point of asking themselves, "Okay, so I had an abortion. But that is in the past. Do I really need to be healed?" Some women seemingly never need to work through any kind of healing process. But for many, the memory of the abortion lies...When Abortion is a Family Secret
by Sydna Masse | July 31, 2017 | Abortion As A Family Secret, Addressing Anger Session 4 | 0 Comments
When a mother does not make this choice, it’s normal for her to blame those who insisted she abort. Since she cannot divorce her family, her life can be miserable whenever she’s around those that forced her to take the life of her child.
Making Abortion Unthinkable
by Sydna Masse | November 28, 2016 | Her Choice to Heal Abortion Recovery Website, Sharing the Secret Session 9 | 0 Comments
The number and rate of abortions tallied by federal authorities have fallen to their lowest level in decades. The abortion rate for 2013 was half the rate recorded in 1980. The CDC tallied 664,435 abortions in 2013, discovering that the abortion rate was down 20 percent from 2004.
Masculine Abortion PTSD
by Sydna Masse | June 19, 2015 | Extended Wounded Fathers, Helping Someone Who Has Experienced Abortion, Her Choice to Heal Abortion Recovery Website | 0 Comments
A man can never say, “I had an abortion." That doesn’t mean when a man's child is aborted that he hasn’t experienced Abortion PTSD at an emotional, spiritual and psychological level. Masculine Abortion PTSD can be varied depending upon the father’s involvement in the...A Novel Approach to Abortion
by Sydna Masse | September 12, 2016 | Abortion PTSD Session 1, Her Choice to Heal Abortion Recovery Website | 0 Comments
“Get. Out.” She slammed the door shut again and waited until his footsteps echoed off the last of the wood risers below. Crumbling to the floor, she let the sobs loose. Life had been better when she’d kept her heart on ice.
Adele, Motherhood and Abortion
by Sydna Masse | February 22, 2016 | Denial's Impact Session 3, Helping Someone Who Has Experienced Abortion, Her Choice to Heal Abortion Recovery Website | 0 Comments
“When I became a parent, I felt like I was truly living. I had a purpose, where before I didn’t,” singer Adele confessed in a March, 2016 Vogue article. At 27 years old, this very successful woman simply stated the truth – she was enjoying life with her child! There...#PPShooting – Rescue at Planned Parenthood
by Sydna Masse | December 7, 2015 | Abortion PTSD Session 1, Her Choice to Heal Abortion Recovery Website | 0 Comments
“Everyone needs to remain calm, keep your heads low and follow me to the buses,” the Colorado Springs police officer told us before our evacuation from a lock-down situation at work. “Our officers have formed a human shield to make sure you all get out of here...Forgiving Myself for Aborting My Child
by Sydna Masse | August 24, 2015 | Finding Forgiveness Session 5, Helping Someone Who Has Experienced Abortion, Her Choice to Heal Abortion Recovery Website | 0 Comments
“There is no sin that God can’t forgive – even abortion,” Dr. James Dobson outlined during my first day working at Focus on the Family in October of 1991. “The problem may be you don’t forgive yourself, and you may need help.” His simple point was amazingly accurate...The Post-Abortive Woman’s Vote
by Sydna Masse | October 24, 2016 | The Post-Abortive Woman's Vote | 0 Comments
My first DNC call to voters required reading a script that outlined my support for “abortion.” I was shocked that simply voicing the word produced immediate anxiety in my heart. I hung up, left the precinct and never returned.
#AbortionDistortion – 95% Do Not Regret Their Abortions
by Sydna Masse | October 3, 2015 | Helping Someone Who Has Experienced Abortion, Her Choice to Heal Abortion Recovery Website, Sharing Your Story Session 2 | 0 Comments
Planned Parenthood's touting a July, 2015 Plos One research study that,“examined women’s emotions and reports of whether the abortion decision was the right one for them.” Based on the lack of obvious regret among a tiny sample of women, pro-aborts joyfully conclude...After Abortion: Helping A Loved One Find God’s Healing
by Sydna Masse | July 23, 2013 | Finding Forgiveness Session 5, Helping Someone Who Has Experienced Abortion, Her Choice to Heal Abortion Recovery Website | 0 Comments
Realize that the post-abortive are always within listening range. Many have overheard judgmental conversations that relayed messages like, “I think any woman that chooses abortion should go to prison!”
Abortion’s Generational Curse
by Sydna Masse | September 25, 2017 | Abortion's Generational Curse | 0 Comments
When a family unit is steeped in dysfunction, sexual abuse and abortions abound. Grandmothers or mothers who aborted often encourage daughters and granddaughters to do the same. Abortion then becomes a family habit or a generational curse.
Eight Lies About Abortion
by Sydna Masse | April 4, 2016 | Abortion PTSD Session 1, Helping Someone Who Has Experienced Abortion, Her Choice to Heal Abortion Recovery Website | 0 Comments
Abortion seemed like a lie worth believing when I discovered my unplanned pregnancy in my local Planned Parenthood office at 19 years of age. The falsehoods Planned Parenthood sold to me that day would reverberate in my life forever. Sadly, I bought their well...You Never Know Who’s Listening
by Sydna Masse | June 19, 2017 | Helping Someone Who Has Experienced Abortion, Her Choice to Heal Abortion Recovery Website, You Never Know Whose Listening | 0 Comments
Missing from the mix are the voices of tens of millions who are shattered deeply by the loss of their child(ren). These hearts absorb the murderer/killer title with great shame and guilt. Locked in silent prisons of pain, they reach judgmental conclusions about themselves and believe the worst – that they have committed the unforgivable sin.
After Abortion: A Note to the Recently Post-Abortive Person
by Sydna Masse | July 9, 2013 | Abortion Recovery, After Abortion | 0 Comments
As someone who chose abortion in my teen years, I understand the various emotions that many post-abortive people endure afterwards. Today, tomorrow or years from now.
The Health Benefits of Tears After Abortion
by Sydna Masse | February 13, 2018 | Grieving Your Loss Session 6, The Health Benefit of Tears After Abortion | 0 Comments
Abortion is an obvious death experience but few realize that truth when they make this choice. Society often communicates that if you make a choice to reject parenthood, grief is not necessary. Yet the heart often has a mind of its own where sorrow is concerned.
6 Ways to Compassionately Address a Past Abortion
by Sydna Masse | July 18, 2016 | Helping Someone Who Has Experienced Abortion, Her Choice to Heal Abortion Recovery Website | 0 Comments
When someone confesses an abortion secret, they typically are searching for help. Maybe they want to know if they did the right thing. Others test the waters to see if you will judge them.
Steps to Take Before Sharing the Secret of Abortion
by Sydna Masse | July 29, 2015 | Her Choice to Heal Abortion Recovery Website, Sharing the Secret Session 9 | 0 Comments
After three undercover videos outlining that our world’s largest abortion provider, Planned Parenthood, sells the body parts of aborted children, many post-abortive people are outraged, along with many others. Post-abortive denial was broken forever in these videos of...The Benefits of Grief
by Sydna Masse | August 31, 2011 | Grieving Your Loss Session 6, Her Choice to Heal Abortion Recovery Website | 0 Comments
Over the years I have met a handful of women who truly did heal from this pain miraculously. I’ve never doubted anyone healing initially. God clearly can do anything He wants to do. But this “instant healing” is rare.
The Revenant of an Aborted Child
by Sydna Masse | July 17, 2018 | Abortion Recovery Grid, The Revenant of an Aborted Child | 0 Comments
Revenant is defined as one that returns after death or a long absence. For many post-abortive people, being haunted by their “blob of tissue” is often unexpected.
Helping Your Wife Heal After Abortion
by Sydna Masse | September 18, 2017 | Abortion Recovery Grid | 0 Comments
Abortions are typically decided in times of great turmoil. When women share that they had an abortion, the deep details rarely follow this truth. By sharing just the simple truth that they had an abortion, these hearts watch the listener’s reaction closely.
5 Stages of Denial After Abortion
by Sydna Masse | January 30, 2017 | Denial's Impact Session 3, Her Choice to Heal Abortion Recovery Website | 0 Comments
Every time the word “abortion” is overheard by a post-abortive heart, a trigger of abortion pain can be unleashed. This simple phrase rarely brings any joy to those considering its ramifications. Any one related to a post-abortive person can watch our transformation from blindness on this topic simply by watching our body language and listening to our conversation. Here are five common stages of post-abortive denial…
When Abortion Recovery Video Based Programs Fail: The Unexpected “Fall Out” on Post-Abortive Hearts
by Sydna Masse | April 16, 2013 | Abortion Recovery, Abortion Recovery Video Programs | 0 Comments
While abortion recovery video based programs seem popular, I strongly urge a re-evaluation of their overall use.
Justice After Abortion
by Sydna Masse | June 6, 2016 | Addressing Anger Session 4, Her Choice to Heal Abortion Recovery Website | 0 Comments
“I must have been sleeping for the last ten years,” the caller screamed. “I’ve been blinded to the horrors of my own abortion. I lived in denial that has evaporated. I don’t need healing. I need to end this horror for other women by working to make abortion...Myth #3: I’m the Only One That Feels This Way!
by Sydna Masse | June 9, 2015 | Her Choice to Heal Abortion Recovery Website, Sharing Your Story Session 2 | 0 Comments
A post-abortive person’s heart can be split – before and after the abortion. Every element of my life changed when my child died in that Indianapolis abortion clinic in 1981. Immediately I felt like no one could understand me. My vow that “no one would ever know”...Doritos Superbowl Ad Breaks Abortion Denial
by Sydna Masse | February 8, 2016 | Denial's Impact Session 3, Her Choice to Heal Abortion Recovery Website | 0 Comments
NARAL (National Abortion Rights Action League) is angry that during the 50th Superbowl, @Doritos used what they call, "an #antichoice tactic of humanizing fetuses," by featuring an ultrasound of an unborn baby moving in the womb. NARAL knows "humanizing fetuses"...Abortion’s Impact on the Elderly
by Sydna Masse | October 31, 2016 | Her Choice to Heal Abortion Recovery Website, My Child in Heaven Session 8 | 0 Comments
One in three American women living today have potentially experienced abortion. Post-abortive individuals are at every level of society, including our nation’s elderly care units like assisted living facilities and nursing homes.
A Personal Abortion Story by Sydna Masse
by Sydna Masse | November 6, 2017 | Abortion Recovery Grid | 0 Comments
Sydna Massé is a rare pro-life speaker when she shares her story of walking into an abortion clinic and losing her child. Watch this video to see how a pregnancy center could have made all the difference in her choice to abort. Sydna shares how – years later – a pregnancy center helped her find God’s healing and grace. If you are searching for a pro-life event speaker, Watch this video!
Elements of Abortion PTSD: Abortion Anniversary Agony
by Sydna Masse | June 5, 2015 | Grieving Your Loss Session 6, Helping Someone Who Has Experienced Abortion, Her Choice to Heal Abortion Recovery Website | 0 Comments
I found myself crying all night. My eyes were sealed shut with mucus the next morning due to the extent of my tears. The third week in March was always a bad week for me after my abortion in 1981. Without knowing anything about Abortion PTSD, I never connected any...Exposing Abortion PTSD Triggers at Planned Parenthood
by Sydna Masse | November 2, 2015 | Her Choice to Heal Abortion Recovery Website, Letting Go Session 7 | 0 Comments
“That was the Planned Parenthood where I learned about my unplanned pregnancy in 1981,” I pointed out to Sarah Buler as we looked out the window of the Alternatives of Kalamazoo pregnancy center in Michigan two weeks ago. Over the years, I have purposefully walked...Don’t Give the Liberal Media Your Abortion Story!
by Sydna Masse | May 1, 2018 | Abortion Recovery Grid | 0 Comments
If healing has yet to be established in their post-abortive heart, the emotional impact of compiling 250-500 words about one of the worst days of their lives can be staggering.
Missing Women
by Sydna Masse | August 2, 2011 | Her Choice to Heal Abortion Recovery Website, Sharing the Secret Session 9 | 0 Comments
Imagine the bus or the subway or the car that takes you to work, then erase the females commuting alongside you. Erase your wife and your daughter. Or erase yourself. Imagine this and you come close to picturing the problem.
#1in3 Abortion’s Broken Women
by Sydna Masse | February 1, 2016 | Abortion PTSD Session 1, Helping Someone Who Has Experienced Abortion, Her Choice to Heal Abortion Recovery Website | 0 Comments
C.S. Lewis once said, “We are not necessarily doubting that God will do the best for us; we are wondering how painful the best will turn out to be.” When it comes to a past abortion, embracing a recovery class seems like an agonizing concept but it can truly lead to...What’s Abortion, Mom?
by Sydna Masse | May 15, 2018 | Mom? | 0 Comments
When questions about abortion come out of the blue, parents are often unprepared for these deeper queries from their young children.
8 Reasons Women Abort Again and Again
by Sydna Masse | August 15, 2016 | Abortion PTSD Session 1, Her Choice to Heal Abortion Recovery Website | 0 Comments
When God makes the reality of abortion obvious to a post-abortive soul, many feel they deserve incarceration – even the death penalty. Sadly, the worst prisons can be in our own minds.
Dreams After Abortion
by Sydna Masse | January 11, 2016 | Her Choice to Heal Abortion Recovery Website, Sharing Your Story Session 2 | 0 Comments
“But I aborted to be able to finish college,” the post-abortive woman outlined in her message. “Now I can’t even move. I’m in deep depression, have failed two classes and I want to know what is wrong with me! I can’t see how any of this relates to my abortion but I...Abortion: Heaven’s Hope
by Sydna Masse | March 28, 2016 | Her Choice to Heal Abortion Recovery Website, My Child in Heaven Session 8 | 0 Comments
“You aren’t giving women the hope of seeing their children in heaven, are you, Sydna?” an abortion recovery leader probed me during an initial conversation in my first years in ministry. “Scripture isn’t clear that the destination of aborted souls is heaven, Sydna!”...Abortion’s Fake News
by Sydna Masse | April 3, 2017 | Sharing the Secret Session 9 | 0 Comments
At the time, I was offered the fake news that abortion was safe and legal. It was my right as a woman to control my body. It would even make my life better by allowing me to erase this mistake and have a do-over. They said there was plenty of time to make other choices.
If She Doesn’t Know You Know About Her Abortion
by Sydna Masse | June 26, 2018 | If She Doesn't Know You Know About Her Abortion | 0 Comments
If you know a loved one who may be maintaining an abortion secret, confronting them directly about this truth may not be God’s best plan. Thankfully, there are many other ways to address an abortion secret indirectly.
#ShoutYourAbortion Consequences
by Sydna Masse | September 28, 2015 | Extended Wounded Fathers, Extended Wounded Grandparents, Extended Wounded Siblings of Aborted Child, Helping Someone Who Has Experienced Abortion, Her Choice to Heal Abortion Recovery Website | 0 Comments
Planned Parenthood’s recent encouragement to women to tweet their abortion truth using #ShoutYourAbortion will have a long lasting impact not only on the women who responded but also on many families who will read, with horror, about the death of a family member. The...Paralyzing Post-Abortive Shame
by Sydna Masse | September 8, 2015 | Denial's Impact Session 3, Her Choice to Heal Abortion Recovery Website | 0 Comments
If one third of American women have experienced abortion, why is it that you rarely hear anyone confess to this choice? Abortion is typically cloaked in secrecy. Post-abortive silence speaks volumes about the post-abortive shame that is often associated with this...Adele, Abortion and Motherhood
by Sydna Masse | November 21, 2016 | Abortion PTSD Session 1, Her Choice to Heal Abortion Recovery Website | 0 Comments
Could there be a scientific reason for the emotional, physical, psychological and spiritual pain that can result after abortion?
5 Spiritual Weights of Abortion
by Sydna Masse | April 17, 2017 | Grieving Your Loss Session 6, Her Choice to Heal Abortion Recovery Website | 0 Comments
In leaving the abortion clinic, typically one is dead and the other is wounded. It makes no difference that the abortion was a “legal” choice. The end result is the death of a living child. Because that life was voluntarily surrendered, abortion has a different impact on a woman’s heart at a spiritual level.
4 Ways Abortion Wounds Women
by Sydna Masse | August 1, 2016 | Abortion PTSD Session 1, Her Choice to Heal Abortion Recovery Website | 0 Comments
Abortion impacts a woman’s body, soul and mind. The simple fact that she will rarely share this truth with others confirms that abortion often has unseen consequences. Abortion is also a difficult truth to harbor in a heart.
Healing for Abortion’s Bloodguilt
by Sydna Masse | March 27, 2018 | Healing for Abortion's Bloodguilt | 0 Comments
When a woman exits an abortion clinic, leaving her child behind, she is often deeply wounded. She also assumes a new title from society if they discover her abortion sin – murderer.
Remembering Aborted Children: His Name is Jesse!
by Sydna Masse | August 31, 2015 | Grieving Your Loss Session 6, Her Choice to Heal Abortion Recovery Website | 0 Comments
“Trust us,” my abortion recovery leader requested. “A memorial service for your aborted child will be a healing experience.” With each video release about Planned Parenthood's sale of aborted baby body parts from the Center for Medical Progress, America is now...After Abortion Segregation
by Sydna Masse | September 19, 2016 | Denial's Impact Session 3, Her Choice to Heal Abortion Recovery Website | 0 Comments
“She became a completely different person overnight,” the caller outlined about her daughter. “I read your blog and believe that she may have chosen abortion.” Abortion changes everything, whether the mother or father knows it or not.
Immediately After Abortion
by Sydna Masse | June 23, 2015 | Abortion PTSD Session 1, Her Choice to Heal Abortion Recovery Website | 0 Comments
As someone who chose abortion in my teen years, I understand the various emotions that many experience immediately after abortion. At that time, there were no resources to help me understand the emotions that followed that choice. My hope is that this blog can enlighten you to the common issues some may encounter immediately after an abortion decision so you can understand what you may encounter.
The Irish Abortion Vote
by Sydna Masse | March 13, 2018 | Abortion Recovery Grid, Prolife, The Irish Abortion Vote | 0 Comments
Nowhere in the world is abortion more unusual than in Ireland. One of the few common elements in the South and North of Ireland is the absence of legalized abortion.
Damaging Messages #3: What Not to Say to Post-Abortive People
by Sydna Masse | June 11, 2015 | Helping Someone Who Has Experienced Abortion, Her Choice to Heal Abortion Recovery Website | 0 Comments
#3 - Don't Say – Did you know you lost a blob of tissue/baby/child/zygote/fetus/embryo? Many people have the urge to “set us straight” about our abortion loss. Please understand that our level of healing cannot be judged by our reactions to these statements when even...Abortion: A Special Place in Hell
by Sydna Masse | February 15, 2016 | Her Choice to Heal Abortion Recovery Website, Sharing Your Story Session 2 | 0 Comments
Madeleine Albright apologized in the NY Times this weekend for her February 5, 2016 statement supporting Hillary Clinton, where she outlined, “There is a special place in hell for women that don't help each other.” Albright’s comment struck a chord in my...Online Hope for Abortion’s Wounded Hearts
by Sydna Masse | April 10, 2018 | Online Hope for Abortion's Wounded Hearts | 0 Comments
It was my delight to share about Ramah International’s new online abortion recovery website at HerChoicetoHeal.com. By linking her pregnancy center’s donor and client website to this free website, this center is now reaching post-abortive people in their community at a deeper level and God’s healing work is booming.
5 Ways Siblings of Aborted Children Suffer
by Sydna Masse | August 22, 2016 | Extended Wounded Siblings of Aborted Child, Her Choice to Heal Abortion Recovery Website | 0 Comments
Abortion changes everything. In leaving an abortion clinic, one is dead while the mother is typically wounded in some way. Initially, family members endure the brunt of the emotional, spiritual and psychological fall out. Many have no idea an abortion has occurred.
Abortion Pain in the Elderly Heart
by Sydna Masse | January 30, 2018 | Abortion Pain in Elderly Hearts | 0 Comments
Elderly post-abortive people exist all over the world. Many often encounter no obvious regret until nearing the end of their lives. Some have found God’s peace by quietly serving others. Others have lost not only children but grand and great grandchildren as well.
Damaging Messages #1: What Not to Say to Post-Abortive People
by Sydna Masse | May 28, 2015 | Helping Someone Who Has Experienced Abortion, Her Choice to Heal Abortion Recovery Website | 0 Comments
A large percentage of women (and men) feel clear relief after an abortion because their unplanned pregnancy has been “resolved.” Many go on for decades without even thinking about that choice.
Abortion’s Bloodguilt: He Died for That!
by Sydna Masse | September 24, 2016 | Finding Forgiveness Session 5, Her Choice to Heal Abortion Recovery Website | 0 Comments
“God cannot forgive my abortion sin, Sydna,” a post-abortive woman concluded during a phone conversation. “The blood of my child will always be on my hands!” This is a common illogical mindset among post-abortive hearts. When we confess, many simply don’t realize...Silent No More: Sharing the Secret of Abortion
by Sydna Masse | June 1, 2015 | Her Choice to Heal Abortion Recovery Website, Sharing the Secret Session 9 | 0 Comments
It was a lonely spot being one of the first women to pioneer sharing an abortion testimony on a public platform. When I taped my first broadcast for a major Christian ministry in 1992, I had just opened my heart to look at my past abortion pain. Ministry life started...Addressing Abortion Clinic Verbal Abuse
by Sydna Masse | June 10, 2015 | Addressing Anger Session 4, Her Choice to Heal Abortion Recovery Website | 0 Comments
"I can’t go to that pregnancy center for abortion recovery. It’s right next to the Right to Life offices and I’m scared of those people,” the young caller outlined when I gave her a referral for an abortion recovery program in her area. She went on to outline that...The REAL War on Women
by Sydna Masse | August 10, 2015 | Abortion PTSD Session 1, Helping Someone Who Has Experienced Abortion, Her Choice to Heal Abortion Recovery Website | 0 Comments
“Why would I want to hold your hand?” I naively responded to the “nurse” at the abortion clinic as she helped me onto the surgical table. Her matter-of-fact response sent chills through my body, “Because you didn’t pay extra for anesthesia so this is going to hurt…” I...6 Ways Abortion Can Impact the Family
by Sydna Masse | May 8, 2017 | After Abortion, Extended Wounded Fathers, Extended Wounded Grandparents, Extended Wounded Siblings of Aborted Child | 0 Comments
Abortion impacts everyone, whether they know it or not. It is a choice that influences not only the woman but also everyone related to them. If someone you know changes their behavior overnight – and seems to become someone else – suspect they may have chosen abortion.
Abortion, Immigration and the American Dream
by Sydna Masse | February 29, 2016 | Her Choice to Heal Abortion Recovery Website, Letting Go Session 7 | 0 Comments
“You are my dreams fulfilled, Sydna,” my Irish maternal grandfather announced upon meeting me at 5 years old. “You are my American grandchild, a citizen of the land flowing with milk and honey!” In last week's Republican debate, history was made wherein two candidates...I Can Hear You: How Post-Abortive People Feel When Called a Murderer or Killer
by Sydna Masse | September 22, 2015 | Helping Someone Who Has Experienced Abortion, Her Choice to Heal Abortion Recovery Website, Sharing the Secret Session 9 | 0 Comments
The caller shouted in my ear, “How dare she compare her loss to my miscarriage. After all, she MURDERED her child!” No one had ever attacked me in such a way during a radio interview. The conversation up until that point with the show’s host and the director of the...Dislodging America’s Abortion Pain
by Sydna Masse | January 16, 2017 | Her Choice to Heal Abortion Recovery Website, Sharing Your Story Session 2 | 0 Comments
Today we stand, waiting in deeper faith than ever before, anticipating a whole new civil rights battle, designed to reduce America’s horrific involvement in the systematic destruction of the lives of our tiniest citizens. But we can’t do it alone!
Ramah International 2016 Ministry Update
by Sydna Masse | December 28, 2016 | Ministry Update | 0 Comments
Sydna Masse provides an update on the ministry accomplishments of Ramah International in 2016 along with plans for ministry advancement in 2017.
#1in3Speaks Increasing Abortion’s Stigma
by Sydna Masse | November 17, 2015 | Denial's Impact Session 3, Grieving Your Loss Session 6, Her Choice to Heal Abortion Recovery Website | 0 Comments
“No one will ever have to know you were pregnant,” the orderly at my abortion clinic outlined dryly. “You can go on with your life as if nothing ever happened!” I absorbed her comments, working to believe her. She “sold” my abortion as something that would protect the...I Never Heard From Them Again
by Sydna Masse | July 10, 2017 | Her Choice to Heal Abortion Recovery Website, I Never Heard from them Again, Letting Go Session 7 | 0 Comments
Ramah International’s main goal is to help individuals experiencing abortion pain find God’s healing. Whether this is by talking to them directly and helping them discover God’s healing, writing blogs that answer their deepest questions, taking calls because they are pregnant again and considering abortion, or in referring them to local abortion recovery programs.
Myths Post-Abortive People Can Believe: #2 Pro-lifers are my Enemy
by Sydna Masse | June 2, 2015 | Helping Someone Who Has Experienced Abortion, Her Choice to Heal Abortion Recovery Website, Sharing Your Story Session 2 | 0 Comments
Myth #2 – Pro-lifers are my Enemy Many post-abortive individuals report they are apprehensive of judgment and rejection from pro-life individuals specifically. Most relay they feel more comfortable and secure around pro-choice individuals as they perceive these...Abortion’s Haunting Impact
by Sydna Masse | July 17, 2017 | Abortion's Haunting Impact, Her Choice to Heal Abortion Recovery Website, My Child in Heaven Session 8 | 0 Comments
When the aborted child’s placenta detaches from his mother’s womb, the mother often feels this separation deep within her soul. This “emptiness” often feels haunting as an abortion experience is difficult to ignore or forget.
Oprah’s #ShoutYourAbortion Fallout
by Sydna Masse | September 11, 2018 | Oprah #ShoutYourAbortion Fallout | 0 Comments
This abortion proud hashtag has now been tweeted over 300,000 times. Whatever the reasons for participating in this promotion, the use of this hashtag can have massive implications for the American family whose members have been lost to abortion.
The Dynamics of God’s Love
by Sydna Masse | August 11, 2011 | Finding Forgiveness Session 5, Her Choice to Heal Abortion Recovery Website | 0 Comments
Many of us who have been raised in traumatic circumstances have a hard time understanding the nature of love. “God is love.” What does that mean? I spent a great deal of my life fearing God, particularly so after my abortion.
7 Ways Siblings of Aborted Children Suffer
by Sydna Masse | June 5, 2018 | 7 Ways Siblings of Aborted Children Suffer | 0 Comments
Sibling abortion grief is often unacknowledged and unprocessed. Many have no clue that they have an aborted brother or sister in heaven. Since abortion is typically kept secret, it can be difficult for living children to understand the source of their parent’s pain.
Pregnancy Scare!
by Sydna Masse | October 16, 2017 | Pregnancy Scare! | 0 Comments
Abortion is completely hypothetical until you find yourself in a potential unexpected pregnancy. A pregnancy scare can lead anyone to consider the abortion option. However, when those individuals who considered themselves “pro-life” actually abort, their pain afterwards can be greatly intensified because they knew better.
Message of Hope to Abortion’s Wounded
by Sydna Masse | August 14, 2018 | Abortion Recovery Grid | 0 Comments
Our team is here to help anyone struggling after an abortion decision. Please know that there is no sin that God cannot forgive, even abortion. The problem maybe you don’t forgive yourself and may need help. The HerChoicetoHeal.com website can help you discover God’s peace and mercy so that you can process this pain in a healthy manner. Visit HerChoicetoHeal.com today!
5 Types of Anger After Abortion
by Sydna Masse | June 5, 2017 | 5 Types of Anger After Abortion, Addressing Anger Session 4, Her Choice to Heal Abortion Recovery Website | 0 Comments
Anger typically surrounds women before and after their abortion. Anger assists in addressing – or covering up – typical after abortion emotions like fear, guilt, longing, frustration, or hopelessness.
I Would Have Marched in a Pink Pussy-Cat Hat
by Sydna Masse | January 23, 2017 | Abortion Recovery Grid, Addressing Anger Session 4, Her Choice to Heal Abortion Recovery Website | 0 Comments
Many souls wearing pink pussy-cat hats on Saturday’s march were likely post-abortive. No one defends abortion like those who have chosen it – at least, initially. Anger is typically a necessary element of any abortion rights protests.
Thanksgiving Triggers After Abortion
by Sydna Masse | November 13, 2017 | Grieving Your Loss Session 6 | 0 Comments
Immediately after abortion, many post-abortive people enjoy a period of relief. The anxiety of an unexpected pregnancy has been resolved, if only for a while. Individuals often work to forget this choice and go on with their lives. Sadly, many find that the emotional and spiritual pain of abortion can peak after being triggered, particularly during holiday events.
Ramah International Pregnancy Center Training Seminar Jackson, Michigan 2012 Sydna Massé
by Sydna Masse | July 31, 2018 | Abortion Recovery Grid | 0 Comments
Sydna Massé shares the story of how God led her to join an abortion recovery class and the impact that healing had on her ministry life. Her Choice to Heal Finding Spiritual and Emotional Peace After Abortion Sydna Massé compassionately leads you...Elements of Abortion PTSD: Replacing a Lost Child After Abortion
by Sydna Masse | May 29, 2015 | Abortion PTSD Session 1, Her Choice to Heal Abortion Recovery Website | 0 Comments
Anxiety over fertility and childbearing issues is a common element of Abortion PTSD. Some women maintain a fear that they might never again become pregnant.
Respecting an Abortion Secret
by Sydna Masse | October 9, 2018 | Respecting an Abortion Secret | 0 Comments
The consequences for an abortion confessor can be difficult for the non-post-abortive to imagine. This level of rejection is not for the faint of heart.
8 Forms of Childhood Strife That Impact Abortion
by Sydna Masse | February 6, 2017 | Finding Forgiveness Session 5, Her Choice to Heal Abortion Recovery Website | 0 Comments
Family histories that include abortion often contain many other traumatic events. Unplanned pregnancy often results during deep family strife as one generation significantly impacts another. These strife cycles cascade down the family line often ending in a generational circle of discord. Since one generation clearly impacts another, abortion decisions are often repeated down a family line.
Forgiving Jane Roe – Abortion’s Secondary Impact
by Sydna Masse | February 20, 2017 | Finding Forgiveness Session 5, Her Choice to Heal Abortion Recovery Website | 0 Comments
“Can I have a cigarette first?” Norma McCorvey, the infamous “Jane Roe” in the Roe v. Wade case that legalized abortion in America, stood next to me behind the stage. Her request outlined her apprehension of what would happen over the next five minutes.
You Must Be Post-Abortive!
by Sydna Masse | August 28, 2017 | Abortion Recovery Grid, Helping Someone Who Has Experienced Abortion, You Must be Post-Abortive! | 0 Comments
The requirement that, “You must be post-abortive,” astounded me. Nothing rattles me more than when abortion recovery programs openly DISCRIMINATE and REJECT God’s anointed people simply because they have never experienced abortion. As a direct result of this cliquish rule, abortion recovery efforts have diminished over the years versus increased because there simply are not enough healed post-abortive people to administer these programs nationwide.
The Undeniable Stigma of Abortion
by Sydna Masse | July 6, 2015 | Denial's Impact Session 3, Her Choice to Heal Abortion Recovery Website | 0 Comments
Abortion stigma for me began the moment I realized I was pregnant. In even considering an abortion, many women cross the line of their own personal conscience. One step can lead to another until you are quickly “pregnant no more.” It is nearly trite to say that my...4 Ways to Address Holiday Pain After Abortion
by Sydna Masse | December 5, 2016 | Her Choice to Heal Abortion Recovery Website, My Child in Heaven Session 8 | 0 Comments
Every holiday season is filled with reminiscences of celebrations with family and friends, many of whom have gone ahead of us to Heaven. Christmas celebrates God sending His own Son to Earth through a teenage unwed mother. That story, in itself, can trigger unresolved abortion pain.
Four Biological Impacts of Abortion
by Sydna Masse | October 30, 2017 | Abortion Recovery Grid | 0 Comments
The biological impact of abortion is often the least understood aspect of this choice due to the lack of scientific research. That fact alone makes research afterwards nearly impossible. Even without detailed research on post-abortive women, science has provided proof of the biological impact of abortion. There are four ways in which a woman’s body is impacted by abortion.
Mom, What’s Abortion?
by Sydna Masse | January 9, 2017 | Her Choice to Heal Abortion Recovery Website, Sharing the Secret Session 9 | 0 Comments
With the approaching battle in Congress to remove Planned Parenthood funding, parents need to be prepared to answer this question from their children. Whether you have experienced an abortion or not, educating our children about abortion’s devastation will help ENSURE they never make such a choice.
Truth vs. Condemnation After Abortion
by Sydna Masse | June 15, 2015 | Helping Someone Who Has Experienced Abortion, Her Choice to Heal Abortion Recovery Website, Sharing the Secret Session 9 | 0 Comments
“If she isn’t comfortable being called murderer, then she’s not healed!” the FB comment outlined on a shared post of my recent blog entitled, “I Can Hear You.” Since May, 2015, I’ve been blogging daily about elements of the American post-abortive experience,...Myths Post-Abortive People Can Believe: #1 Abortion is Unforgivable
by Sydna Masse | May 26, 2015 | Finding Forgiveness Session 5, Helping Someone Who Has Experienced Abortion, Her Choice to Heal Abortion Recovery Website | 0 Comments
Post-abortive individuals often view their choice to abort as unforgivable in the eyes of God. Many also struggle in forgiving others who participated in their abortion choice.
Ministering to Abortion’s Wounded Hearts
by Sydna Masse | December 28, 2017 | Ministering to Abortion's Wounded Hearts | 0 Comments
God blessed our year by allowing us to minister to abortion’s wounded at a new and deeper level. Many of you have prayed for our efforts and financially donated as well. Thank you. As I reflect back on 2017, please know your support has certainly impacted every praise we are outlining in this message!
Ramah Reviews – Living In Color: The Goal of Post-Abortion Recovery
by Sydna Masse | June 27, 2013 | Abortion Recovery | 0 Comments
Think of it like a brownie that has salmonella included in the recipe. Would you eat that brownie? I wouldn’t. So we have made the decision NOT to use this program at our center.
Our Ministry Rocks
by Sydna Masse | August 14, 2017 | Abortion Recovery Grid, Our Ministry Rocks, Sharing the Secret Session 9 | 0 Comments
Judy concluded, “Put a stone in this basket and write on it the name of every life God touches through your lovely heart. This basket will serve to strengthen your ministry and encourage your heart in years to come that God is using you mightily. I’m glad that my rock is there first!”
The Emotional Impact of Aborting Imperfect Humans
by Sydna Masse | March 27, 2017 | Helping Someone Who Has Experienced Abortion, Her Choice to Heal Abortion Recovery Website | 0 Comments
Many fetal abnormalities are discovered later in the pregnancy. Most are referred to the local abortion clinic for this procedure. Once there, they sit among women like myself who chose to abort for different reasons. Aborting a wanted child in such a situation bears its own form of trauma.
8 Strategies to Tame Triggers of After Abortion Pain
by Sydna Masse | October 10, 2016 | Helping Someone Who Has Experienced Abortion, Her Choice to Heal Abortion Recovery Website, Letting Go Session 7 | 0 Comments
Triggers of Abortion PTSD often arrive unexpectedly, activating a deep and forgotten pain. Since many post-abortive people work to forget this choice, the spark of these triggers can send them into a whirlwind of emotional anxiety.
10 Comforts When Family Members are Aborted
by Sydna Masse | October 2, 2018 | 10 Comforts When Family Members are Aborted | 0 Comments
Aborted children don’t show up on a missing person’s list. Their remains aren’t in mortuaries or funeral homes. They are often unacknowledged by their parents which means the secret of their brief lives is rarely shared with others. That doesn’t mean there isn’t related grief when this truth is discovered.
God’s Purpose in Abortion Pain
by Sydna Masse | June 26, 2017 | Abortion Recovery Grid, Denial's Impact Session 3, Her Choice to Heal Abortion Recovery Website | 0 Comments
"I've confessed my sin, Sydna, to you and God," the woman outlined. "I’ve attended a weekend abortion recovery retreat as well. Why isn't the pain gone now? Why isn’t God healing me faster?" Post-abortive women often spend a lot of emotional energy in denying or...The Deadly Impact of Abortion Antagonists
by Sydna Masse | May 8, 2018 | Abortion Recovery Grid | 0 Comments
A woman doesn’t make an abortion decision in a bubble. She typically enlists the insight and “wisdom” of others. Many then assume the role of abortion antagonist – a person who actively opposes or is hostile to a tiny human growing in another person’s womb.
Postpartum Depression After Abortion
by Sydna Masse | April 10, 2017 | Grieving Your Loss Session 6, Her Choice to Heal Abortion Recovery Website | 0 Comments
Abortion clearly involves giving birth. It obviously involves the loss of a child. However you view the abortion issue, there is no denying that this form of voluntary child loss has a physical impact on the women that choose it.
Does Post-Abortion Syndrome Exist?
by Sydna Masse | June 13, 2011 | Abortion PTSD Session 1, Helping Someone Who Has Experienced Abortion, Her Choice to Heal Abortion Recovery Website | 0 Comments
One of the biggest battles in the abortion issue has been over whether or not post-abortion syndrome (PAS), a form of Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) as it relates to abortion, really exists among women who have made this choice.
Did She Tell You About Her Abortion?
by Sydna Masse | December 4, 2017 | Did She Tell You About Her Abortion? | 0 Comments
Post-abortive women often spout their abortion truth in the most unlikely moments. This need for validation is intense when the initial relief period passes. Depending on the listener’s perspective, these confessions can be met with compassion, validation or rejection.
Damaging Messages #2: What Not to Say to Post-Abortive People
by Sydna Masse | June 4, 2015 | Helping Someone Who Has Experienced Abortion, Her Choice to Heal Abortion Recovery Website | 0 Comments
"I don’t support what you did, but I’m here to support you." This comment voices disdain for the individual and reverts the conversation back to you and your heart on the abortion issue. This can be very damaging to the individual who needs unconditional support and...God’s Forgiveness After Abortion
by Sydna Masse | April 25, 2016 | Extended Wounded Fathers, Finding Forgiveness Session 5, Her Choice to Heal Abortion Recovery Website | 0 Comments
"The pastor said my abortion is an unforgivable sin because I blasphemed the Holy Spirit in rejecting His gift of life,” a post-abortive woman outlined in an e-mail message. “There is no hope for me to ever enter Heaven, Sydna, right?” The wounded woman’s pastor used...Pro-Choice Abortion Recovery Programs
by Sydna Masse | June 12, 2018 | Pro-Choice Abortion Recovery Programs | 0 Comments
Pro-choice efforts to comfort those who may be upset after their abortion typically has only one goal – to reinforce that their abortion had been a GOOD choice.
4 Costs of Sharing an Abortion Secret
by Sydna Masse | April 24, 2017 | Her Choice to Heal Abortion Recovery Website, Sharing the Secret Session 9 | 0 Comments
Today there are active efforts by pro-choice and pro-life groups to encourage women to share their abortion stories. Twitter campaigns like #shoutyourabortion and #1in3 are designed to NORMALIZE an abortion experience and reduce any related stigma. Sadly, in sharing this tale prior to God’s healing, more trauma can result for everyone involved.
Abortion Anesthesia and Pain
by Sydna Masse | February 27, 2018 | Abortion Anesthesia and Pain | 0 Comments
Obviously, the pain women endure during an abortion varies greatly. To learn more about how abortion clinics present the anesthesia option, we recently surveyed abortion clinic websites and learned some basic truths
4 Ways To Relieve Christmas Pain After Abortion
by Sydna Masse | December 11, 2017 | 4 Ways to Relieve Christmas Pain After Abortopm, Abortion Recovery Grid | 0 Comments
During Christmas, many discover that their emotional and spiritual pain related to an abortion choice can peak, robbing them of any seasonal joy.
Elements of Abortion PTSD: How Do I Know I Need Healing?
by Sydna Masse | June 16, 2015 | Abortion PTSD Session 1, Helping Someone Who Has Experienced Abortion, Her Choice to Heal Abortion Recovery Website | 0 Comments
If you are one of the millions of women who have experienced abortion, you know that the memories associated with this experience can be difficult and even painful. Yet months and years may go by without any remembrance of the abortion. Then you find yourself...How Will Post-Abortive Women Vote?
by Sydna Masse | October 30, 2018 | How Will Post-Abortive Women Vote? | 0 Comments
But what about the one third of American voting women who have chosen abortion? How will they vote? The answer often depends on the time that has passed since their abortion experience.
Finding the Faith to Face the Pain
by Sydna Masse | August 22, 2011 | Grieving Your Loss Session 6, Her Choice to Heal Abortion Recovery Website | 0 Comments
When I started my abortion recovery class, I was only there because of God. Our Creator seemed to insist in so many ways that I attend. He even put the words into my mouth when I voluntarily agreed to attend as part of taking a new job.
8 Common Triggers of After Abortion Pain
by Sydna Masse | October 3, 2016 | Abortion PTSD Session 1, Denial's Impact Session 3, Her Choice to Heal Abortion Recovery Website | 0 Comments
For those experiencing Abortion PTSD, it is normal for sights, sounds, smells and even feelings they encountered during the time of their abortion decision to ignite memories they are working to forget.
Abortion In our Midst: Helping Post-Abortive Individuals Discover God’s Healing
by Sydna Masse | October 12, 2012 | Abortion PTSD Session 1, Helping Someone Who Has Experienced Abortion, Her Choice to Heal Abortion Recovery Website | 0 Comments
One third of all American women are post-abortive. You encounter us – in supermarkets, teaching your children, running day care centers, and at the top levels of corporations.
#PregnancyCenters – Walking Among Heroes
by Sydna Masse | October 10, 2015 | Helping Someone Who Has Experienced Abortion, Her Choice to Heal Abortion Recovery Website, Letting Go Session 7 | 0 Comments
Last month I walked among an amazing group of heroes at the 2015 CareNet conference. Pregnancy center personnel from all over the nation gathered for encouragement, to learn new things and to be revived in their work for life. I wouldn’t call myself an equal to these...Forgiving Jane Roe: Abortion’s Secondary Impact
by Sydna Masse | January 16, 2018 | Forgiving Jane Roe | 0 Comments
Norma McCorvey, the infamous “Jane Roe” in the Roe v. Wade case that legalized abortion in America on January 22, 1973, stood next to me behind the stage at Focus on the Family. This was one of Miss McCorvey’s first speaking excursions in the pro-life realm since accepting Christ – a 700 person conference for pregnancy center workers in February of 1998.
8 Reasons Post-Abortive Women Cannot Be Researched
by Sydna Masse | May 16, 2016 | Abortion PTSD Session 1, Helping Someone Who Has Experienced Abortion, Her Choice to Heal Abortion Recovery Website | 0 Comments
Imagine receiving a call from a survey company who asks, “Has anyone in your home experienced abortion?” If you are post-abortive, would you answer affirmatively? Likely not! Women are typically hesitant to reveal they have made this choice to friends and family, let...The Traumatic Impact of Medication Abortion
by Sydna Masse | June 12, 2017 | Denial's Impact Session 3, Her Choice to Heal Abortion Recovery Website, The Traumatic Impact of Medication Abortion | 0 Comments
Unlike a surgical abortion procedure, the mother will likely view a tiny human when it passes out of her uterus.
Abortion’s Sinful Women
by Sydna Masse | March 14, 2016 | Abortion PTSD Session 1, Finding Forgiveness Session 5, Helping Someone Who Has Experienced Abortion, Her Choice to Heal Abortion Recovery Website | 0 Comments
"The list of Abortion PTSD symptoms is endless,” the father of a post-abortive woman wrote despondently. “Abortion is something people cannot get over. I know they can say they have, but I don't see evidence of that.” The hopelessness of this man's bleak perspective...3 Common Mindsets After Abortion
by Sydna Masse | May 2, 2016 | Denial's Impact Session 3, Her Choice to Heal Abortion Recovery Website | 0 Comments
Post-abortion healing often begins when post-abortive women take the tentative step to exit their self-imposed prisons of secrecy to reach out for help. I will never forget the day I summoned the courage to open a booklet entitled, Identifying and Overcoming Post-Abortion Syndrome.
Taking Home
by Sydna Masse | June 15, 2011 | Her Choice to Heal Abortion Recovery Website, Sharing Your Story Session 2 | 0 Comments
Our concept of “home” often depends on what we learned about this abode in the past. If home life was difficult and painful, achieving peace and love in our current circumstances can be a struggle.
Abortion’s Survivor Guilt
by Sydna Masse | August 7, 2017 | Abortion's Survivor Guilt | 0 Comments
Abortion finds many of us at a crossroads. Individuals can easily forget the added dysfunction they endured because they chose abortion. Rarely does abortion improve a life but often it leads to other problematic behavior that impact family life.
4 Male Mindsets that Influence Abortion
by Sydna Masse | July 25, 2016 | Extended Wounded Fathers, Her Choice to Heal Abortion Recovery Website | 0 Comments
A woman cannot get pregnant alone. Society often places the entire responsibility for an abortion choice on the mother who walked into the clinic. Yet for every aborted child, there is a father who may or may not have been involved in their child’s death.
When A Christian Aborts
by Sydna Masse | October 17, 2016 | Helping Someone Who Has Experienced Abortion, Her Choice to Heal Abortion Recovery Website, Sharing Your Story Session 2 | 0 Comments
I continued, “In 2014, 24% of abortion patients were Catholic, 17% were mainline Protestant, 13% were evangelical Protestant and 8% identified with some other religion. Churched women are more likely to abort due to shame issues.”
Does God Approve of Abortion?
by Sydna Masse | September 18, 2018 | Does God Approve of Abortion? | 0 Comments
Many faith-based hearts prayed before they aborted, asking for God to intervene if this wasn’t His will for them. These ambiguous prayers are often answered, just not in the way we expect.
Abortion and Sexual Abuse
by Sydna Masse | November 14, 2016 | Abortion PTSD Session 1, Helping Someone Who Has Experienced Abortion, Her Choice to Heal Abortion Recovery Website | 0 Comments
Sexual trafficking ministries have long understood the connection between abortion and sexual abuse. For those caught in the web of sexual slavery, abortion is a well-used financial tool for traffickers. Those that escape that imprisonment often report multiple forced abortion experiences.
Forgiving Abortion Enablers
by Sydna Masse | May 9, 2016 | Extended Wounded Grandparents, Extended Wounded Siblings of Aborted Child, Finding Forgiveness Session 5, Helping Someone Who Has Experienced Abortion, Her Choice to Heal Abortion Recovery Website | 0 Comments
Women do not get pregnant by themselves. Rarely do they end up in abortion clinics without being impacted by the opinion of others. Whether through direct or indirect involvement, abortion enablers are those who encourage, bully, intimidate, coerce or assist women in choosing abortion.
Abolishing Abortion Strongholds
by Sydna Masse | March 7, 2016 | Abortion PTSD Session 1, Finding Forgiveness Session 5, Her Choice to Heal Abortion Recovery Website | 0 Comments
“I’ve had too many abortions, Sydna,” the caller outlined. “God simply cannot forgive me.” My response is always the same - There is no sin that God cannot forgive - even abortion. The problem may be you don’t forgive yourself and may need some help. The myth that God...Woefully Deficient Data: Why Post-Abortive Women Cannot be Defined by Current Research Methods
by Sydna Masse | May 20, 2015 | Denial's Impact Session 3, Helping Someone Who Has Experienced Abortion, Her Choice to Heal Abortion Recovery Website | 0 Comments
Imagine receiving a call from a survey company asking, “Has anyone in your home experienced abortion?”
Fighting Forgetfulness After Abortion
by Sydna Masse | July 10, 2018 | Abortion Recovery Grid | 0 Comments
After abortion, women typically work to forget they ever made such a choice. If pain and grief don’t manifest themselves quickly, they can appear as a delayed reaction in years to come.
Intimate Abortion Involvement: The Secondary Impact of Abortion PTSD
by Sydna Masse | May 27, 2015 | Extended Wounded Fathers, Extended Wounded Grandparents, Extended Wounded Siblings of Aborted Child, Helping Someone Who Has Experienced Abortion, Her Choice to Heal Abortion Recovery Website | 0 Comments
Rarely will a woman confess to a past abortion. Even more uncommon is for involved friends or family members to bring up the topic afterwards.
9 Ways to Help Someone After Abortion
by Sydna Masse | November 27, 2017 | 9 Ways to Help Someone After Abortion | 0 Comments
Everyone is impacted by abortion, whether they know it or not. If you care about people who have chosen abortion, here are nine things to consider when attempting to help them.
Dismantling Denial After Abortion
by Sydna Masse | June 17, 2015 | Denial's Impact Session 3, Her Choice to Heal Abortion Recovery Website | 0 Comments
“Will this affect me, emotionally or psychologically?” I asked the attendant at the abortion clinic before signing their required intake forms. She responded almost with glee, “Oh no. It’s just a blob of tissue. This will make your life better! You have plenty of...How Washington and the Media Impact Post-Abortive Hearts
by Sydna Masse | October 22, 2012 | Abortion PTSD Session 1, Helping Someone Who Has Experienced Abortion, Her Choice to Heal Abortion Recovery Website | 0 Comments
There is clear reason for alarm. The U.S. government seems adamant in expanding abortion rights at a level we never anticipated – both here and around the world.
The Right to Remain Silent After Abortion
by Sydna Masse | April 18, 2016 | Her Choice to Heal Abortion Recovery Website, Sharing the Secret Session 9, Sharing Your Story Session 2 | 0 Comments
"I don’t understand why women aren’t flooding onto platforms to share their abortion truth, Sydna,” a male pro-life leader declared during a long ago phone conversation. “I’m angry that you aren't pushing women to take a stand against abortion when you know what it...Stranger at the Abortion Clinic
by Sydna Masse | April 11, 2016 | Finding Forgiveness Session 5, Helping Someone Who Has Experienced Abortion, Her Choice to Heal Abortion Recovery Website | 0 Comments
“This is an abortion clinic! What is she doing here?” I thought upon noticing a stranger entering the room. “She does not look like a person who should be having an abortion.” The woman resembled a preppy teenager with short red hair and clear pale skin. “Likely a...#MeToo and Abortion Pain
by Sydna Masse | June 19, 2018 | #Metoo and Abortion Pain, Abortion Recovery Grid | 0 Comments
“My abortion was far more traumatic than the rape, Sydna,” the young woman shared during an abortion recovery program I was leading. “Why didn’t anyone tell me that abortion would be so hard? Even Christians recommended I abort but I didn’t think it would be so brutal...8 Ways to Help Someone Who May be Post-Abortive
by Sydna Masse | April 24, 2018 | 8 Ways to Help Someone Who May Be Post-Abortive | 0 Comments
If you know someone who may be maintaining an abortion secret, bringing up your knowledge of their abortion directly can be wounding. A better way is to compassionately address those that have chosen abortion indirectly versus confronting them.
The Ministry Fruit of An Aborted Child
by Sydna Masse | March 6, 2018 | Pregnancy Center Leadership, The Ministry Fruit of an Aborted Child | 0 Comments
We simply should never take God’s fruit as our own. If we take the personal credit for saving lives, then we also become responsible for every life lost to abortion. When God receives the full credit for lives saved, He also assumes responsibility for the lives lost to abortion.
Her Choice Not to Heal After Abortion
by Sydna Masse | November 6, 2018 | Abortion Recovery Grid, Her Choice Not To Heal After Abortion | 0 Comments
Abortion’s emotional and spiritual pain is likely one of worst forms of self-torture that exists in our world today. It binds our hearts to the anxiety and shame that someone could discover this awful truth about us and cast us out.
A Pastor’s Compassion for the Post-Abortive
by Sydna Masse | October 23, 2018 | A Pastor’s Compassion for the Post-Abortive | 0 Comments
She walked into my office. I could tell she was nervous. When I heard her story I could tell why. She was post-abortive, she had a new boyfriend and was afraid to tell him her story.
An Appeal to Post-Abortive Women
by Sydna Masse | July 24, 2017 | Abortion PTSD Session 1, An Appeal to Post-Abortive Women | 0 Comments
An appeal to post-abortive women who are still in search of God’s healing to begin to address this pain using Ramah International’s new website at herchoicetoheal.com.
4 Male Mindsets that Affect Abortion Decisions
by Sydna Masse | October 16, 2018 | 4 Male Mindsets that Affect Abortion Decisions | 0 Comments
While men may not possess any legal rights in the abortion decision, they have more influence than they sometimes realize. That power typically depends on the strength of their relationship with the child’s mother.
Mile Marker 223 – South of Birmingham
by Sydna Masse | June 28, 2011 | Abortion Recovery | 0 Comments
The vehicle then cut across our traffic lane ahead of us and hit the right embankment very hard. As Tom pulled our car to a stop, we watched this automobile flip two times and come to a grinding thud less than 25 yards in front of us.
How Many Women Have Chosen Abortion?
by Sydna Masse | January 23, 2018 | How Many Women Have Chosen Abortion? | 0 Comments
Accurate statistics on the demographics of post-abortive people is nearly impossible to discover for many reasons. I cite abortion provider’s statistics simply because they are the only ones that come into direct contact with us.
Traumatizing Tears After Abortion
by Sydna Masse | June 24, 2015 | Grieving Your Loss Session 6, Her Choice to Heal Abortion Recovery Website | 0 Comments
“Sydna, I’m afraid that if I cry for my aborted child, I won’t be able to stop,” my lunch partner confessed. “I’m not suicidal at all. I just want to go to Heaven and hold my baby. I felt this way when my mother died! I missed her so much!” Pregnancy loss through...Ongoing Grief After Abortion
by Sydna Masse | May 22, 2017 | Grieving Your Loss Session 6, Her Choice to Heal Abortion Recovery Website, Ongoing Grief After Abortion | 0 Comments
God created tears to help us heal. Tears have a biological purpose in helping cleanse our bodies of toxins. There is also a whole book of the Bible on grief – Lamentations – that outlines crying is good for us, whenever it arrives.
Good Grief: Mourning After Abortion
by Sydna Masse | June 22, 2015 | Grieving Your Loss Session 6, Her Choice to Heal Abortion Recovery Website | 0 Comments
“I can’t stop crying, Sydna,” the caller outlined. “All I can think about is the child I lost 20 years ago. What’s happening to me? Am I going crazy?” While abortion is a death experience, rarely do post-abortive people give themselves permission to grieve. Since...Why Didn’t God Stop Me?
by Sydna Masse | June 13, 2016 | Finding Forgiveness Session 5, Her Choice to Heal Abortion Recovery Website | 0 Comments
“I asked God to stop me if aborting wasn’t His will for my life. When He didn’t, I felt it was okay. Why didn’t He stop me, Sydna?” the post-abortive woman asked. Many faith-based hearts prayed before they aborted, asking for God to intervene if this wasn’t His will...Abortion’s Anniversary Anguish
by Sydna Masse | June 20, 2016 | Grieving Your Loss Session 6, Her Choice to Heal Abortion Recovery Website | 0 Comments
Anniversary pain can be focused on the date of the abortion or the due date of the aborted child. When these dates resurface, unknown sorrow can result. Many times there is relief in understanding that this pain has a source.
Abortion Clinics and Restaurants: The Obvious Benefits of Health Inspections
by Sydna Masse | July 13, 2015 | Denial's Impact Session 3, Her Choice to Heal Abortion Recovery Website | 0 Comments
Have you ever endured food poisoning after eating out at a restaurant? One Illinois buffet sickened an entire team of Ramah trainers before a conference. The common denominator was the ranch dressing at the salad bar. For those of us who consumed that condiment, a...7 Reasons Not to Abort Again
by Sydna Masse | September 11, 2017 | 7 Reasons Not to Abort Again | 0 Comments
If someone walks back into an abortion clinic to abort again, they typically re-live their first abortion emotionally, spiritually, psychological, biologically and physically during the second abortion. The trauma is then often doubled or even tripled.
Why Women Choose Abortion Over Adoption
by Sydna Masse | June 27, 2016 | Abortion PTSD Session 1, Helping Someone Who Has Experienced Abortion, Her Choice to Heal Abortion Recovery Website | 0 Comments
Just reading the word “adoption” filled me with fear of the long-term pain associated with never knowing what happened to my child. Envisioning my baby being ripped from my arms and given to strangers was too much to consider. Abortion seemed far easier in my teenage logic.
Realizing Fetal Pain During Abortion
by Sydna Masse | October 2, 2017 | Realizing Fetal Pain During Abortion | 0 Comments
For women who have chosen abortion, the “pain-capable” point can blow their minds. Post-abortive women have often bought the lie that abortion only removes “a blob of tissue.” When you state that a “blob” may feel pain while they are being aborted, the “blob lie” fizzles.
5 Ways to Heal Grandparent Pain After Abortion
by Sydna Masse | September 26, 2016 | Abortion Recovery Grid, Extended Wounded Grandparents, Her Choice to Heal Abortion Recovery Website | 2 Comments
“I feel like I’m in a grief pit with no way out and no one to talk to,” the grandparent of an aborted child painfully outlined. “I don’t even have a right to say I’m a grandmother.”
Understanding Abortion’s Wounded Women: The Post-Abortive Impact of Planned Parenthood’s Undercover Videos
by Sydna Masse | August 3, 2015 | Denial's Impact Session 3, Her Choice to Heal Abortion Recovery Website | 0 Comments
“You’re pregnant!” the Planned Parenthood "counselor" in Kalamazoo, Michigan announced to me in August, 1981. I was just 19 years old, preparing for my sophomore year at a Christian college. Instantly, my whole world shattered. Abortion was the only solution presented...6 Impacts of Abortion on the Family
by Sydna Masse | July 8, 2016 | Extended Wounded Fathers, Extended Wounded Grandparents, Extended Wounded Siblings of Aborted Child, Helping Someone Who Has Experienced Abortion, Her Choice to Heal Abortion Recovery Website | 0 Comments
When I decided to abort, I captured the false promise that afterwards I could go on as if nothing happened. The choice seemed the best for everyone involved – particularly my family. I believed this choice would afford both myself, my present and future family several advantages.
Discovering Amazing Faith in the Midst of Life’s Storms
by Sydna Masse | October 16, 2012 | Abortion Recovery, Deepwater Horizon Oil Spill | 0 Comments
This past summer our family was forced to file for personal bankruptcy. The Deepwater Horizon Oil Spill may be a memory to most of you but we will always remember it as the tool God used to move us out of Florida.
Mom and Dad, I Have Something To Tell You
by Sydna Masse | June 3, 2015 | Extended Wounded Grandparents, Her Choice to Heal Abortion Recovery Website | 0 Comments
Your daughter reveals the dreaded truth, “I had an abortion.” Your mind reacts with thoughts like, “It cannot be… What? Why? How come my daughter didn’t come to me?" In the midst of the wondering, a deep seated sense of loss sets in that doesn’t go away. Questions...The Human Face of Abortion
by Sydna Masse | May 21, 2015 | Abortion PTSD Session 1, Helping Someone Who Has Experienced Abortion, Her Choice to Heal Abortion Recovery Website | 0 Comments
For most of us who made this choice, this is a secret we dare not share. If people – even loved ones – knew about our abortion decision, they would not like us, love us, or associate with us.
8 Things Not to Say to a Post-Abortive Individual
by Sydna Masse | April 1, 2014 | Addressing Anger Session 4, Helping Someone Who Has Experienced Abortion, Her Choice to Heal Abortion Recovery Website | 0 Comments
Abortion has become a common American experience. Just because we, the post-abortive, don’t talk about it doesn’t mean it’s not impacting us.
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